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  • A Celebration of Possibility

    A Celebration of Possibility

    “All endings are also beginnings. We just didn’t know it at the time.”

    — Mitch Albom

    The Five People You Meet in Heaven

    Today we helped my wife’s sister and her husband move into their new home.

    Moving signifies embarking on a new chapter. One door closes, and another one opens. It’s a tangible reminder that life is full of opportunities for growth and transformation. It’s a celebration of what’s possible. The future is wide open with every new step. There’s always room for growth, change, and the unexpected.

    The transition from one stage to the next is often laborious. It’s easy to beat yourself up for forgetting where you packed things. And it may take longer than you originally planned. And it will definitely cost more (everyone thinks they are wiser than they really are). But the key that unlocks the door to the next chapter is only found when you release the old one.

    Is it a risk? You bet. When you sell the house in which you currently reside, you’re putting your faith and hope in the fact that you have another one ready. But sometimes life has other plans. Sometimes plan A falls through and plan B is living with your parents until your new house is finished. It takes trust, patience, and stick-to-it-iveness. Heaps of it.

    But then, the day finally comes and it’s time turn the page. And it’s rewarding. And exciting. And, ever so slowly, all of that stress and anxiety that used to keep you up at night starts to drift away. And you look back and reflect and think about just how far you have come.

    New things are new because they are unmarred.

    One could say they are perfect.

    But they are also blank.

    Empty.

    Lifeless.

    Full of possibility.

    A new chapter is a celebration.

    A celebration of possibility.


  • Don’t Think. Just Do.

    Don’t Think. Just Do.

    Limits are meant to be pushed. Whether it’s speed, fear, or doubt, the barriers in front of us are only as permanent as we allow them to be.

    A “top gun” doesn’t back down because the odds are stacked against him—he thrives because he trusts his training, his instincts, and his relentless drive to succeed. That’s a lesson for all of us. You don’t have to wait to feel “ready.” You don’t need to be the best to start. What matters is taking the first step and believing in your ability to rise.

    “Don’t think, just do.” Those four words encapsulate what it takes to break through fear and hesitation. Courage isn’t the absence of fear—it’s action in spite of it. Every great achievement begins with someone daring to step into discomfort, to face the unknown.

    In life, you can be sure that you will face challenges that test you, voices that doubt you, and moments when quitting feels easier than continuing. But the only way to truly grow is to embrace the process and push through the turbulence.

    Your mission isn’t just about skill—it’s about mindset. Trust your instincts. Trust the work you’ve put in. Trust the vision you’re chasing, even if others can’t see it yet. Obstacles will come, but they’re there to refine you, not define you. Keep showing up. Keep giving it everything you’ve got. When you do, you’ll find that limits begin to crumble, and the horizon gets just a little closer.

    You don’t have to know exactly how the story ends. What matters is flying your own mission, on your own terms. Because at the end of the day, it’s not just about winning—it’s about living boldly, pushing boundaries, and refusing to let fear clip your wings.

    The sky was never the limit—it’s just the beginning. All you have to do is take off.


  • Taking The First Step

    Taking The First Step

    As we settle back in from a long, relaxing weekend away, I find myself reflecting on the moments we shared, and Nathan Scott’s words from One Tree Hill echo in my mind:

    “It’s the oldest story in the world. One day you’re 17 and planning for someday. And then, quietly, without you ever really noticing, someday is today. And that someday is yesterday. And this is your life.”

    This year has been a testament to resilience and adaptation. The trip to Wilmington was more than just a getaway—it was a chance to step outside my comfort zone, rediscover passions, and embrace a fresh perspective.

    On the way down, I decided to sign up for the Wilmington Historic 10K. Kellie had already planned to run, and I was content to cheer her on from the sidelines. But something stirred inside me—an urge to take on the challenge myself.

    And I’m so glad I did. Yes, it was tough, but it was also exhilarating. It wasn’t just about running; it was about doing something I’d never done before. Setting a goal, not just meeting it, but surpassing it. I need more of that—more resilience, more moments of saying “yes,” even when it’s hard. More of “why not?” instead of “maybe later.” Taking action, stepping into the unknown, and discovering what’s waiting on the other side. This time, it was a medal.

    10K race finishers, Kellie & Brent in Wilmington, NC. Brent is biting his medal while Kellie stands alongside.
    Medal never tasted so good…

    Every moment, from crossing the 10K finish line to exploring the riverfront, was a reminder to stop waiting for “someday” and start living fully today. Wilmington was a beautiful reminder: life is happening now, and the best moments are the ones created by simply taking that first step.


  • Let Me Introduce Myself 😎

    Let Me Introduce Myself 😎

    I go by Brent. I make and fix the internets. Sometimes successfully. I am a self-proclaimed pickleball addict. I think I’m as cool as Tyson McGuffin but humble myself every time I hit my overhead into the net.

    It’s progress. Not perfection. Each day is a journey worth traveling. Life has no rewind button. If you’re living with regret, you’re not living. Choose to be present today. Be who you want to be tomorrow, even when you don’t feel like it today. Adventure awaits. Let’s get after it. 🧭🥾🌄


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