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  • The Body Is Ready When the Mind Is Steady

    The Body Is Ready When the Mind Is Steady

    Spinx Run Fest 10K – Greenville, SC

    Finish Time: 52:42 (8:29/mi) — New PR ✅

    They say training is everything, but I’m learning that the real foundation of endurance starts with a calm mind.

    To be completely honest, I didn’t have the most consistent training block leading up to this race. I don’t think I had one week where I hit my mileage goal. And I definitely slacked in the interval training/speed-work sessions.

    But during the final week leading up to race day, I shifted my focus inward. I meditated every evening, practicing mindfulness and breathwork. That mental reset changed everything about how I showed up on race morning.

    The practice of mindfulness is not new to me. I’ve meditated consistently for the past year using the guided meditation programming offered by Apple Fitness+. But then I saw an Ad on my IG feed for the Waking Up app, which intrigued me. Like Apple Fitness, it has guided meditation sessions, but Waking Up goes deeper, teaching you how to actually understand your mind, not just quiet it. It’s less about relaxation and more about transformation–the kind that can only come from equanimity.

    When the mind is calm, endurance becomes effortless.

    Crossing the start line, I found rhythm early. My breathing felt smooth. Around mile four, a side stitch tried to throw me off, but instead of fighting it, I went back to focusing on my breath. By mile 5, it had passed. Most surprisingly, my splits were as consistent as they ever have been. In my past longer runs, I would limit my warm-up to a quick half mile and light stretching immediately before the race, and I had to “ease in” to the first few miles. But this time, I ran a full 1-mile warm-up about 30 minutes before the start, which I think helped tremendously and made all the difference in my consistency.

    For once, I wasn’t chasing the PR. I knew it was coming.

    At the last water station, I even took a few seconds to hydrate without that nagging voice in the back of my head shouting, “You’re losing time.” That’s when it hit me: calm confidence is faster than frantic effort.

    The final stretch into the stadium felt surreal. The red dirt of the warning track under my shoes—it’s one of the best finish line experiences you can get. And seeing my biggest fan cheering as I entered the stadium? That sealed it.

    52:42. A 10K PR. Not because I pushed harder, but because I stayed grounded through every mile.

    This race reminded me that consistency follows clarity. When the mind is steady, the body knows what to do.

    See you next year, Spinx. 🤙


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  • Donut Know How I Ran This Fast 🍩

    Donut Know How I Ran This Fast 🍩

    This past Saturday’s BIG Nike Takeover was such a vibe.

    The run was hosted by Run In Greenville and fueled by some of the best caffeine in town from Due South Coffee Roasters. But the real heart behind the event? Supporting the next generation of creatives by collecting art supplies for local schools.

    I laced up the new Nike Vomero 18s for the first time, and they did not disappoint. Super cushioned and responsive—the perfect combo of comfort and speed. They felt so good, I couldn’t help but lean in and let it rip:

    24:45 for a new 5K PR. 🔥

    Not mad about walking away with a free hat from the Greenville Uptempo Sports raffle and a limited-edition tee featuring custom art by the one and only @tjeisenhart (seriously—such a cool collab). Every detail of the event felt thoughtful, from the gear to the coffee to the art. And the vibes? Immaculate.

    It was one of those runs that reminds me why I do this—fast miles, good people, and purpose behind the pace. The end result is pure joy.

    Let’s run it back soon, fam. 🤙

    PHOTOS BY CITIZEN MEDIA CO


  • Finding Joy On The Court

    Finding Joy On The Court

    I found joy. ✨

    Last year, I left my full-time agency job. Let’s be honest… it drained me more than it grew me. Without anything lined up, letting go was scary… but necessary. I didn’t know what would fill the space.

    Today, that space is filled with things that light me up. I’ve been able to challenge myself in ways I never thought possible. This morning, the challenge was on the pickleball court. And the joy was found in the journey.

    It wasn’t easy. It was a grind.

    There were some tough losses. Horrendous points.

    There was even a moment I lost my cool out of frustration and threw my paddle into the net (I later apologized to my opponent—it was completely uncalled for). 😬

    But that’s why you keep fighting. 😤

    You don’t let one bad point—or one bad call—dictate the whole game. Or in my case, the whole day.

    Sometimes you have to take the L on the chin and come back swinging.

    Sometimes… you pickle the next game. 🙂‍↕️

    Today, I found a way to come back and win the bronze medal. 🥉

    Couldn’t have done it without my Bread & Butter Invader paddle and the FREAKY TACK grip from UDrippin. 🤩 Love the feel!!!

    Big congrats to my competitors Judd (gold) and Doug (silver)—incredible players and even better sports. I want to be like them when I grow up. 🫡

    And huge thanks to The City of Greenville Parks & Recreation for another competitive ladder league. We’ll see you in the fall! 🤙

    This isn’t just about medals.

    It’s about making space for what matters.

    It’s about finding joy again. ✨


  • 5K PR Fueled by Fiesta

    5K PR Fueled by Fiesta

    Most people celebrate Cinco de Mayo with tacos and tequila. I celebrated mine with a free group run and a surprise PR.

    The 5K run was hosted by Run In Greenville and New Balance, held at the always lively Double Stamp Brewery. It was one of those perfect spring evenings where the vibes were light and the energy was high. The kind of night where you show up expecting a social jog, and somehow end up racing the clock.

    The real wildcard? New Balance brought some demos, and I couldn’t resist trying out the FuelCell SuperComp Elite v4s. The moment I laced them up, my legs said “¡Vámonos!”

    I wasn’t planning to push the pace, but the bounce in those carbon-plated super shoes said otherwise. Whether it was the shoe technology, the vibes from the crowd, or the Cinco magic—I found myself cruising faster than I’ve ever run a 5K.

    Previous 5K PR: 26:13

    Cinco de Mayo: Sub-26, baby.

    Yeah, yeah, my Apple Watch says 3.09 miles. Haters can take it up with the GPS gods. The real takeaway? My pace was 7 seconds per mile faster than my previous PR, and I felt smooth the entire way.

    Was it the shoes? The placebo? The CINCO magic?

    Don’t know. Don’t care.

    All I know is: FAST is FUN.

    Big thanks to Run In Greenville, New Balance, and Double Stamp Brewery for putting on a great event. I’ll definitely be back for more group runs—and maybe another PR or two. 🌮✨

    Photos by CITIZEN MEDIA CO. Full gallery here.


  • Freedom In Motion

    Freedom In Motion

    “How many years can some people exist before they’re allowed to be free?”
    Dylan

    🏁⏱️ 55:08 | 10K | New PR

    12 minutes faster than December.

    I didn’t just run.
    I broke loose.
    From the weight I used to carry.
    From the me that thought this wasn’t possible.

    With every step, I remembered:
    I’m allowed to fly.
    The cage was never locked.

    Freedom in motion.
    Not just a mantra—
    a reckoning.

    I’m not finding myself.
    I’m freeing myself.

    I’m free to move
    without asking for permission.
    I’m free to chase what lights me up
    instead of what weighs me down.
    I’m free to live within my own cadence,
    not someone else’s expectation.
    I’m free to take up space.
    Fully. Unapologetically.
    I’m free to run toward myself,
    not away from doubt.
    I’m free to speak my truth.
    Stand in my fire. Never shrinking back.
    I’m free to become more me
    with every step forward.
    I’m free to define my own finish line
    and to crush it on my own terms.

    “How many roads must a man walk down?”
    “How many years must a mountain exist?”
    “How many deaths will it take till he knows?”
    The answer, my friend, is blowin’ in the wind. 💨

    Existence can be fleeting.
    But it doesn’t have to be.

    Nothing changes if nothing changes.
    Change is the key to unlock destiny.

    A fork in the road.
    Rain on the mountain.
    Sudden and unexpected loss.

    Some bring bliss.
    Some bring heartache.
    All bring change.

    And it’s up to the traveler to decide the road.
    It’s up to the climber to choose the path.
    It’s up to the survivor to keep moving forward.

    It’s up to the soul to rise on the zephyr,
    embracing what was always within reach.

    This is my wind.
    And with it, I fly. 🪽


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