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  • Rory McIlroy: A Masterpiece, At Last

    Rory McIlroy: A Masterpiece, At Last

    This is what it means to Rory McIlroy.

    For over a decade, the Masters was the one that got away—the final brushstroke missing from an otherwise legendary career. Four majors by the age of 25. Dominance, elegance, and charisma in equal measure. And yet, year after year, Augusta remained elusive. A heartbreak in 2011. A dozen tries since. Whispers of what could have been, what should have been.

    The career Grand Slam.

    One of the rarest feats in golf—claimed by only five men in history. Rory had three legs of it for over a decade. He just needed one more walk up the 18th at Augusta in triumph.

    But this… this is what it feels like to chase a dream through storms and silence. To carry the weight of expectation, of near-misses, of a jacket that never quite fit—until today.

    And here’s the thing—this isn’t just Rory’s story. It’s ours, too.

    You can have all the pieces. All the promise. But some dreams take time. They demand more than talent. They ask for patience, heartbreak, growth, and relentless belief. You might wonder if your window has closed—but what if it’s just not yet?

    Rory didn’t just win the Masters. He joined the legends.
    He completed the career Grand Slam.
    He finished the story.

    And in doing so, he reminded us: unfinished doesn’t mean failure. It means there’s still more to come. He kept showing up. Kept believing. Kept working. And when the moment finally arrived, it meant more because of the wait.

    So if you’re chasing your own version of a Grand Slam—don’t stop.

    The timeline is different for everyone. But persistence is undefeated.

    Keep showing up. Keep doing the work. Let the dream take the time it needs.

    When he stood on the 18th green, jacket draped over his shoulders, the crowd rising in applause—not just for the win but for the journey—you could see it in his eyes: relief, redemption, glory.

    Well done, Rory.
    A decade in the making.
    A masterpiece, at last.


  • My First Pickleball Medal 🥈

    My First Pickleball Medal 🥈

    Pickleball has a way of testing you—not just your skills, but your mindset. It rewards patience, resilience, and the ability to adapt under pressure. In February, I put that to the test in a four-week 3.5 Men’s Doubles Ladder League, and let me tell you, it was a ride.

    Rising & Sliding Down The Ladder

    When I signed up for this league, I knew it was going to push me. I came out strong in the opening week winning almost 90% of possible points. But I slid down the ladder in week 2 only winning two out of four games. Week 3 was even worse, not capitalizing on the points I needed to set myself up for a push for the podium. Heading into the final week, I found myself sitting three places from last. Not exactly where you want to be when medals are on the line.

    But that’s the thing about competition—it’s not over until it’s over.

    Flipping the Switch

    Going into the final week, I knew I had to play differently. Not just better, but smarter. More intentional. This wasn’t about coasting or hoping for a lucky break. If I wanted a shot at medaling, I had to lock in. 🔐

    Trust the work. Trust the instincts.

    I focused on my footwork, my shot selection, and most importantly, my mental game. Instead of playing not to lose, I played to win. No hesitation. No second-guessing.

    And when it mattered most? I swept the field.

    Every game. Every rally. Every point. I played with a level of confidence and intensity I hadn’t fully tapped into before. By the end of the day, I went from sitting near the bottom of the rankings to standing on the podium with a silver medal around my neck.

    Doug, Gold medalist (on left) alongside Brent, Silver medalist (on right); Not pictured: Steve, Bronze medalist.
    Doug, Gold medalist (on left) alongside Brent, Silver medalist (on right); Not pictured: Steve, Bronze medalist.

    The Takeaway: Trust & Adjust

    This wasn’t just about winning matches. It was about proving something to myself—that when the pressure is high and the odds are against me, I have another gear. I can adjust. I can fight.

    Sure, I’ve had good games before. But this was different. This was a breakthrough.

    Shoutouts & What’s Next

    Silver medal and the Gearbox Pro Ultimate Elongated pickleball paddle
    Silver medal and the Gearbox Pro Ultimate Elongated pickleball paddle

    A huge shoutout to Gearbox Pickleball—the Pro Ultimate Elongated paddle was an absolute beast. The power, control, and feel made a huge difference in my game. Also, big thanks to the City of Greenville Parks and Recreation for hosting a fantastic league.

    And this? This is just the beginning.

    The fire is lit, and I’m already thinking about the next challenge. More tournaments. More leagues. More chances to level up. I’ve already booked a Spring outdoor ladder league coming up at the end of April.

    In pickleball—just like in life—you grind, you come back, and you medal. 🥈

    See you on the courts. 🤙


  • Exploring Connection and Vulnerability: Brené Brown – Atlas of the Heart

    Exploring Connection and Vulnerability: Brené Brown – Atlas of the Heart

    In Atlas of the Heart, Brené Brown takes us on a transformative journey into the complex world of human emotions and experiences. This book serves as both a guide and a map, offering readers a fresh perspective on how to navigate life’s most pivotal emotional landscapes.

    What Atlas of the Heart Is About

    The book categorizes and explores 87 emotions and experiences, providing research-based insights to help readers understand what we feel, why we feel it, and how to communicate these emotions with clarity and empathy. Brown, known for her groundbreaking work on vulnerability, courage, and shame, delivers this resource with her signature mix of storytelling, research, and humor.

    Through vivid metaphors, real-life examples, and reflective questions, Brown empowers us to recognize emotions that often go unnamed. She emphasizes that our ability to articulate feelings isn’t just a soft skill but a critical component of connection, both with ourselves and others.

    Themes That Stood Out to Me

    1. Naming Emotions Is a Form of Power

    One of Brown’s most profound insights is that expanding our emotional vocabulary enables greater emotional resilience. In her research, she discovered that most people can only name three emotions: happy, sad, and angry. Atlas of the Heart invites us to explore the complexity beyond these basics. Words like anguish, awe, and nostalgia take on new significance, as Brown provides not only definitions but the contexts in which these feelings arise.

    For me, this reframing felt like a revelation. Learning to name my emotions more precisely has already influenced how I approach difficult conversations, both personally and professionally. Instead of feeling overwhelmed, I find myself better equipped to express what I’m truly experiencing.

    2. Connection Requires Emotional Literacy

    Brown’s work reinforces that connection is rooted in understanding ourselves and communicating that understanding to others. Atlas of the Heart bridges the gap between feeling and expressing. It also challenges the idea that being vulnerable is a weakness. Rather, vulnerability is what makes courage possible. The book offers practical language to express vulnerability in ways that foster trust, respect, and connection.

    How Atlas of the Heart Relates to Pickleball and Athletic Performance

    As I read, I couldn’t help but think of the parallels between emotional intelligence and athletic performance, especially in pickleball. In a sport where split-second decisions and mental toughness are key, understanding and regulating emotions is vital. Whether it’s managing the frustration of a tough loss or the anxiety of a high-stakes tournament, emotional literacy can change the game—literally and figuratively.

    Mastering the game is as much about mindset as mechanics, and the lessons from Atlas of the Heart remind me that effective play requires empathy and clarity. Naming and working through emotions can unlock breakthroughs in performance, confidence, and joy on the court.

    Takeaways and Recommendations

    Atlas of the Heart is an essential read for anyone seeking deeper self-awareness and more meaningful relationships. Brown’s research-backed insights are practical and profound, making this book an invaluable resource for coaches, leaders, and anyone committed to personal growth.

    If you’re looking to explore emotional complexity in a digestible, actionable way, Atlas of the Heart belongs on your shelf. The insights you’ll gain about yourself and others are as transformative as they are affirming.


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